Wednesday, March 5, 2008

It is not what happen

I learnt that the only thing constant is change, however I cannot recall hearing what exactly that I have to constantly change. Anyways will get back to that later, most time I hear 
people say what will be will be, God is in control, with God all things are possible and all that stuff. All this belief gets me start to wonder; is this really what nature requires from us to always fall back on, or to step up and see how we can work around it? My late friend always use this few lines "I do my best when am stressed". I use to laff whenever he vioces those words, till I found reasons to use those words.
Now back to where we started "the only thing constant is change"..... if change is so constant how come majority still tend from bad to worse? Of cousre the change in weather is constant, same as nigth and day, so when lies the problem? I'll tell you, someone said 'I can't stand monday because of the work pressure been much. So  she said if I can cut off monday from the calender everything will be normal, hmm.
someone else is looking for a life time partner and any one that comes his way, he'll end up complaining either she's too tall/short,too fat/slim has an attitude problem and bla bla bla! wow these category of persons are the kind that have preoccupied their minds with "God time is the best and all". Change is constant both the major thing that we have to change is ourself, change to make monday better, change your personnal attitude towards your immediate environment learn to get the best out of anything. Do not give up before you even try, work on yourself, suck up the pressure. I use to be part of these many, i use to think the way they do, until I learnt how to be wiser stronger and better. I learnt that it is not what happen that determines how the outcome of our future will be, its what u do about it.
What happens happens to virtually everybody, the same sun rises and sets on us all.
So my dear it is not what happen, its what we do about it.